Kat Cole faced a dilemma in her job as a Hooters server. Every week a young man came in with his buddies and ordered...
Edwin Friedman’s last book, A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix, challenges us to lead differently. Here’s how. Show Notes:...
We never lock our doors. At least we didn’t used to. But when my (now 102-year-old) mother came to live with us six years...
Whether you’re a parent, pastor or president, favoritism is unhealthy. Here’s the research behind it and four things you can do to interrupt the pattern....
It’s good to be a lightning rod.* It’s better than being a drain trap. If you’ve ever looked under your sink, you’ve seen a...
Self-differentiated leaders take responsibility for themselves (and no one else). This will increase self-discipline in a way that helps you in all aspects of life....
I often say that self‑regulation is the key to self‑differentiation. When we can regulate our automatic responses in the moment, we’re far more capable...
Edge cases don’t happen often, but they are predictable. This episode unpacks what that looks like and offers five steps to help you grow as...
“When you’re impatient with results, every day feels expensive. When you’re impatient with effort, every day feels like progress.” Shane Parrish As we...