Podcast Episode 263: The Spotlight Affect and Taking Responsibility for Self

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Taking responsibility for self means not making assumptions about others are thinking. Here’s what that looks like and how to do things differently. Show Notes: How Anxiety Distorts Your To-Do List by Kathleen Smith Subscribe to my weekly ⁠Two for Tuesday⁠ emails. — Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jack-shitama/message

Do Your Own Work

Transform Your Life, Transform Your Leadership  Are you tired of the anxiety of others dictating your life? Want to learn how to regulate your own anxiety?  I can help. This four-session coaching program will help you: Understand the source of your non-clinical anxiety without blaming others or yourself. Take non-anxious stands with those who make you most […]

Podcast Episode 261: What Exactly IS a Failure of Nerve – Part 2 of 2

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Knowing the characteristics of a chronically anxious system, as well as the principles of leadership through self-differentiation makes all the difference. Show Notes: ⁠A Failure of Nerve, Revised Edition: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix⁠ by Edwin Friedman Subscribe to my weekly ⁠⁠Two for Tuesday⁠⁠ emails. — Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jack-shitama/message

Podcast Episode 260: What Exactly IS a Failure of Nerve – Part 1 of 2

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Edwin Friedman’s last book, A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix, challenges us to lead differently. Here’s how. Show Notes: A Failure of Nerve, Revised Edition: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix by Edwin Friedman Subscribe to my weekly ⁠Two for Tuesday⁠ emails. — Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jack-shitama/message

Podcast Episode 259: 5 Tips to Start Your New Year Well

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I’m not a fan of New Year’s resolutions. I AM a fan of getting better each year. Here’s why and what has helped me. Show Notes: Get a FREE copy of One New Habit, One Big Goal: Change Your Life in 10 Weeks. Get information and register for the FREE Friedman’s Failure of Nerve Book […]

Friedman’s Failure of Nerve

  Join us for “Friedman’s Failure of Nerve,” an advanced book study where we’ll look at applications of Bowen Family Systems Theory within and beyond the family, especially as it applies to leadership.   Ed Friedman took the tenets of Bowen Family Systems and applied them to congregational leadership. In A Failure of Nerve, he extended this […]

Podcast Episode 256: Good Guilt, Bad Guilt and Self-Differentiation

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Guilt is not necessarily a bad thing. Knowing when it is or isn’t can help you better self-differentiate. Show Notes: About Guilt – Emotional Intelligence for Life (ei-forlife.com) by Miriam Bross Subscribe to my weekly ⁠Two for Tuesday⁠ emails. — Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jack-shitama/message