It’s good to be a lightning rod. * It’s better than being a drain trap. If you’ve ever looked under your sink, you’ve seen a...
Remaining a non-anxious presence with someone who is frustrated creates healthy emotional space. This episode shows you how. — Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jack-shitama/message
...Avoiding a conflict of wills and taking responsibility for self are two essential elements in responding when you make a mistake. I share my own...
If servant leadership is about serving those you lead, then how does a self-differentiated leader do this? Part 2 goes through the second five characteristics...
We never lock our doors. At least we didn’t used to. Now that my 98-year-old mother lives with us things are different. She worries about...
If servant leadership is about serving those you lead, then how does a self-differentiated leader do this? Part 1 goes through the first five characteristics...
Glennon Doyle said, “Pain is not to be chosen, not to be avoided.” I break this statement down in family systems terms to show how...
One of my sons was five when he asked, “Dad, when I get married will my wife be part of the family?” I said, “Of...
Self-differentiation includes both self-definition and self-regulation. This episode breaks down what this looks like and how to keep things in balance. Show Notes: Differentiation of...